"Un muchacho, hombre joven diría. con defectos,
sentimientos, deseos, cualidades...
Él tiene un enorme deseo de ser feliz tener éxito
en su vida profesional, como todo hombre quería casarse, tener hijos, formar
una familia junto a alguien, pero a él no es una prioridad. La prioridad para
este muchacho grande, siempre tienes amigos con él todos que sus amigos se
casan, ser el padrino de sus hijos, tienen historias y más historias que contar
sus sobrinos y hasta hijos y nietos.
El hombre joven tiene varios defectos, uno de
los más grandes, que yo diría que es el miedo a hablar, miedo de hablar de sus
deseos, hablar de lo que él simplemente no para lastimar a gente que le rodea
está molestando, guarda secretos de todo el mundo y no a nadie más, o para su vida.
Tengo amigos que nunca quieren perder en la vida y hay algunos que más bien
nunca hubiera sabido.
Tiene una enorme necesidad de cuidado de las
personas que cada estancia feliz y satisfecho con lo que ha llegado a ganar un
día cuando una persona puede tirar una risa sincera, una sonrisa, una mirada,
un abrazo... al igual que él es feliz, triste, cuando uno ve lo que hizo, que
nadie aprecia lo que intentaron hacer o cuando se hace y no a las personas,
como si nada ocurre. Incluso con estas idas y venidas, no cambia tu forma de
ser, él puede tener muchos problemas pero siempre sonriendo y ver lo positivo
en todo.
¿Hay dentro de una gran convulsión de no decir 'Te
quiero' a alguien realmente ama, no puede sentarse y hablar con un chico que
está pidiendo, y permanecer ' y, o se quebrará? ", Duele mucho y lo ha
bloqueado.
No hay que esperar nada de nadie, siquiera intentarlo!No creo que lo que algunas personas hablar, siquiera intentarlo!
No se puede decir lo que sientes, siquiera intentarlo!
No puede imponerse en una lucha, siquiera intentarlo!
Odio a sentir odios vulnerables, otros piensan que
es triste y lo siento que están con él en su cabecita, es la base para todos
los amigos, si cae, puede caer, por lo que pretende ser fuerte para que no se
tocaría el tiempo entero, sobre temas no pelear con nadie o no recordar si
desvinculó hace tiempo con alguien, no ser igualada como se esperaba, luego
finge que todo está bien y mantener tus momentos de alegría en un pequeño
espacio en tu corazón y cuando algo malo sucede, busca en este espacio las
fuerzas. Él tiene fuerza, es un Dios, es un hombre de
verdad, es romántico, es un guerrero. Él es un Señor es un poeta! y es que él quiere ser o que necesita transformar."
Ese tipo de solicitud que es casi una confesión para un sacerdote de parroquia. No es fácil de encontrar y menos de escuchar por lo que el privilegio que hemos tenido de conocerla nos impone una liturgia eclesiástica de secretividad y no comentar nada a tan reverenciada confesión.
El caso de los transexuales es algo particular. Hay infinidad de intereses y cada caso es una historia de vida. Ese es de un trans norteamericano, y es textual su mensaje. Este tipo resulta realmente interesante:
"I'm a married male to female transsexual, 62 years old and my wife knows and is very supportive of me. I've felt female all my life and I've worked hard to become the woman I am ...and to help that I've been on homones for years and have 38C breasts (I love them!) and most of the time I live full time. I'm looking for someone to date, someone I can care for (it always makes the sex better!) LOL! Someone who can treat me as the woman I am and in turn I can make feel very glad to be a man! My wife keeps telling me I need to find a boyfriend so I guess that would be nice...a boyfriend....ummm! So if that sounds good, lets talk...and see what happens! My name to use is ______ and I'm at a0L Hope to hear from you! "
Pero lo que realmente resulta interesante es cuando un hombre mayor se aferra a la ilusión de encontrar esa media naranja que le complemente. Parecen ilusiones sacadas del diario de una adolescente mas que de un hombre gay ya entrado en años. Y es que no se puede buscar una aguja en un pajar. Sí, hay quienes han tenido la suerte de encontrar a su pareja, y les ha ido bien en muchos años. Pero las costumbres promiscuas de la mayoría, dejaría a estos soñadores esperando un tranvía llamado Deseo que nunca llega. Les invito a leer tan interesante petición:
Hello. What I am looking for is true love. I want a LTR. I want to find my one and only, that special someone to make both our dreams come true. I want my happy ending. But while I am waiting I am not at all opposed to just dating or a "casual" relationship with NSA. I am still just a man with wants and desires! If it's only sex your looking for well you would have to convince me! But I'd rather make love not just have sex. We all can "just have sex" it's our human nature. But when you are in a relationship it's the love, affection, devotion, commitment, trust, and intimacy that you share for one another that makes a difference. The act of having sex becomes the act of making love! And when you both feel that together the great sex will come naturally. I want to spend hours in each other's arms. I want that special feeling of "I can't live without this man"! When we are out of bed I want to spend as much quality time with him as I can doing things together and creating memories because I not only love him I like him, he is also my best friend. I want a man I can love and trust and spoil him with all the love and affection he can handle. I am Italian and French, respectful, caring, considerate, and trusting. Also very affectionate, romantic, and have a sense of humor. I have a lot of love to give with all my HEART, MIND, BODY, and SOUL. I am REAL, HONEST, and SINCERE. Easy going, laid back, and down to earth. Are there any men out there who feel and want the same things? It's been 30 years since I was with a man! Has anything changed for the better after all this time? Some men can not "love" another man, it doesn't feel natural to them, that's their misfortune, and "sex only" becomes the priority in their lives. I find that a bit ironic. Other men are simply "afraid" to love because the fear of hurt, rejection, and disappointment take over. Life is full of risks and chances and if you don't take any you are only existing! I will gladly take any chance or risk to open my heart to someone even if I don't get my happy ending and live happily ever after. To me it would be worth the effort and pain but at least I can say I tried which is better than not trying at all. You never know until you try! I would rather try to alter my own fate at any risk than sit back and do nothing at all and let fate take over. In that case you might not like what you get or end up with nothing at all! Still other men simply just can't live up to that expectation that a real relationship requires. Work and the ability to open yourself up to another and allowing them to come into your life and discover the "real you". Some men would rather avoid that completely in fear that "you" might not like the real person "they" truly are. So again "sex only" becomes the weapon and excuse for everything! And what good is a man with a great face and body if he has a cold heart and is "emotionally unavailable"? I'll take the average looking man with a heart of gold to give and most importantly the ability and willingness to give it up and share it. And I don't believe in that philosophy of "we are in this together 50/50". That means that each one of you are only giving up a half of yourself to the other. You and your partner should be giving each other 100% of your heart, mind, body, and soul. You deserve it "all" and so does he. I don't believe everyone has to agree with me in how I think and feel life, love, and sex should be after reading my profile. Only my future soul mate! But it is my profile which reflects the true person I am and I can say anything I want LOL. I am DD free and HIV-. I am willing to relocate for that special man after I find him. You can't always find what you want and need in your own backyard! If your serious send me a message. I will return yours. I will gladly exchange pics (no x pics)if you can not view gallery. My email address is: _______@gmail.com. I live just outside of Philadelphia. Thank you for viewing my profile and good luck to all of you out there.
De todos modos, estos ejemplos los traigo porque ninguno representa un potencial cliente para mis servicios, esta es una exploración de intereses, porque realmente no se puede perder el tiempo con personas que no les interese pasarla bien, viven aferrados a ilusiones de la época Victoriana inglesa. Las novelitas de Jane Austin, los retrata bien, pero no es lo que me interesa, ni siquiera para montarles una estafa, porque eso es lo que casi siempre encuentran.
El caso de los transexuales es algo particular. Hay infinidad de intereses y cada caso es una historia de vida. Ese es de un trans norteamericano, y es textual su mensaje. Este tipo resulta realmente interesante:
"I'm a married male to female transsexual, 62 years old and my wife knows and is very supportive of me. I've felt female all my life and I've worked hard to become the woman I am ...and to help that I've been on homones for years and have 38C breasts (I love them!) and most of the time I live full time. I'm looking for someone to date, someone I can care for (it always makes the sex better!) LOL! Someone who can treat me as the woman I am and in turn I can make feel very glad to be a man! My wife keeps telling me I need to find a boyfriend so I guess that would be nice...a boyfriend....ummm! So if that sounds good, lets talk...and see what happens! My name to use is ______ and I'm at a0L Hope to hear from you! "
Pero lo que realmente resulta interesante es cuando un hombre mayor se aferra a la ilusión de encontrar esa media naranja que le complemente. Parecen ilusiones sacadas del diario de una adolescente mas que de un hombre gay ya entrado en años. Y es que no se puede buscar una aguja en un pajar. Sí, hay quienes han tenido la suerte de encontrar a su pareja, y les ha ido bien en muchos años. Pero las costumbres promiscuas de la mayoría, dejaría a estos soñadores esperando un tranvía llamado Deseo que nunca llega. Les invito a leer tan interesante petición:
Hello. What I am looking for is true love. I want a LTR. I want to find my one and only, that special someone to make both our dreams come true. I want my happy ending. But while I am waiting I am not at all opposed to just dating or a "casual" relationship with NSA. I am still just a man with wants and desires! If it's only sex your looking for well you would have to convince me! But I'd rather make love not just have sex. We all can "just have sex" it's our human nature. But when you are in a relationship it's the love, affection, devotion, commitment, trust, and intimacy that you share for one another that makes a difference. The act of having sex becomes the act of making love! And when you both feel that together the great sex will come naturally. I want to spend hours in each other's arms. I want that special feeling of "I can't live without this man"! When we are out of bed I want to spend as much quality time with him as I can doing things together and creating memories because I not only love him I like him, he is also my best friend. I want a man I can love and trust and spoil him with all the love and affection he can handle. I am Italian and French, respectful, caring, considerate, and trusting. Also very affectionate, romantic, and have a sense of humor. I have a lot of love to give with all my HEART, MIND, BODY, and SOUL. I am REAL, HONEST, and SINCERE. Easy going, laid back, and down to earth. Are there any men out there who feel and want the same things? It's been 30 years since I was with a man! Has anything changed for the better after all this time? Some men can not "love" another man, it doesn't feel natural to them, that's their misfortune, and "sex only" becomes the priority in their lives. I find that a bit ironic. Other men are simply "afraid" to love because the fear of hurt, rejection, and disappointment take over. Life is full of risks and chances and if you don't take any you are only existing! I will gladly take any chance or risk to open my heart to someone even if I don't get my happy ending and live happily ever after. To me it would be worth the effort and pain but at least I can say I tried which is better than not trying at all. You never know until you try! I would rather try to alter my own fate at any risk than sit back and do nothing at all and let fate take over. In that case you might not like what you get or end up with nothing at all! Still other men simply just can't live up to that expectation that a real relationship requires. Work and the ability to open yourself up to another and allowing them to come into your life and discover the "real you". Some men would rather avoid that completely in fear that "you" might not like the real person "they" truly are. So again "sex only" becomes the weapon and excuse for everything! And what good is a man with a great face and body if he has a cold heart and is "emotionally unavailable"? I'll take the average looking man with a heart of gold to give and most importantly the ability and willingness to give it up and share it. And I don't believe in that philosophy of "we are in this together 50/50". That means that each one of you are only giving up a half of yourself to the other. You and your partner should be giving each other 100% of your heart, mind, body, and soul. You deserve it "all" and so does he. I don't believe everyone has to agree with me in how I think and feel life, love, and sex should be after reading my profile. Only my future soul mate! But it is my profile which reflects the true person I am and I can say anything I want LOL. I am DD free and HIV-. I am willing to relocate for that special man after I find him. You can't always find what you want and need in your own backyard! If your serious send me a message. I will return yours. I will gladly exchange pics (no x pics)if you can not view gallery. My email address is: _______@gmail.com. I live just outside of Philadelphia. Thank you for viewing my profile and good luck to all of you out there.
De todos modos, estos ejemplos los traigo porque ninguno representa un potencial cliente para mis servicios, esta es una exploración de intereses, porque realmente no se puede perder el tiempo con personas que no les interese pasarla bien, viven aferrados a ilusiones de la época Victoriana inglesa. Las novelitas de Jane Austin, los retrata bien, pero no es lo que me interesa, ni siquiera para montarles una estafa, porque eso es lo que casi siempre encuentran.
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